Tuesday, May 2, 2023

AMERICAN WINDOW WEARS NEW FACE AT OSOGBO

 


With a new facelift which the management of UNIOSUN Teaching Hospital, Osogbo has given its facilities at Osogbo Window on America, a wider  opening into and connection with America's free educative empowerment programs and 21 Century digital skills ( right on Nigerian soil ) have now been more extensively made possible  for the people of Osun state.

Osogbo Window on America, an initiative of the Public Affairs section of United State U.S.Consulate, Lagos, Nigeria, has been operating in the premises provided by the UNIOSUN  Teaching hospital since last year.

 Hundreds of scholars including youths have thus been having free access to e-learning, e-library under the Consulate's Massive Open Online Course MOOC programs which have been enhancing their career skills with many users and visitors to the place being exposed to different job opportunities there-from. 

 A situation in which the raining season of last year found users of the facilities dodging from one corner to another to avoid being beaten by rain as a result of the leaking roof ( admitting water menacingly into the building) right in the premises had then presented an eyesore and a cause for concern . But this has now  become a thing of the past amid the new face which the entire edifice is now wearing. 

 Describing the development as a promise kept, the Director of the Window on America,  Samuel Ibitoye stated that members of the staff of UNIOSUN Teaching hospital, Medical Library department appreciate the efforts of the Chief Medical Director and the management committee for ensuring the facelift of the window which doors are now reopening  up from today,Tuesday ,May,2,2023

The renovation, expansion project visited on the building, yielding space to a well-painted edifice and buffeted by a state of the art modern facility, have now become the talk of the town amid encomiums being lavished upon the Management  of the UNIOSUN Teaching hospital under the leadership of its Chief Medical Director, Professor Babatunde Peter Olaitan for ensuring a speedy completion of the project, even on record time.

The WhatsApp platform of the  Osogbo Window on America is now agog with comments from members and users of the facilities as they are commending the UNIOSUN Teaching hospital management team for the expansion project while thanking the Public Affairs section of the U.S.Consulate for the initiative in siting the Window in Osogbo. 

" The youths of Osun should take advantage of this great opportunity and improve on their skill set " Osazee Isonarae advised,  pointing out that they stand to gain a lot from several open doors that are resultantly coming to Osun state to scout for interns to engage .


OLALERE FAGBOLA REPORTING 

Thursday, April 20, 2023

HOW GOD USED OGBENI RAUF AREGBESOLA FOR MY SPIRITUAL UPLIFTMENT ( PART TWO)


One of my god fathers in politics, Chief Shuaib Afolabi Oyedokun used to say that there is a world of difference between being religious and being spiritual. 

Indeed, the high walls between the two are similar to the high walls separating a man of reputation from a man of character. 

Most times,it is what you are when people are around that makes you a man of reputation while it is who you really are when people are not around that says a lot more of you and about your character. 

No wonder why Plutarch, the great thinker wrote that :" man's most conspicuous achievements do not always reveal his best strength or his weakness. Often, a trifling incident,  a word or a jest shows more of his character than the battles where he slays thousands,  his grandest ministering of armies and his siege of cities.

In the name of religion, many people often believe that nothing good may be expected from those who are not in the same worship centre with them.

It is only the man with the third eye of spirituality that understands rightly that God in the affairs of men , sits down in Heaven doing whatever pleases Him ,and He is never, never seeing with the hollow spectacles of any man.

It is however an irony of fate that most of us as critics  often play God in the way we are always too hasty to serve others ultimatum while passing judgement over others , writing off people and situations irredeemably as if they can never turn round to humble us out of our cocoon. 

The proverb of the wisest King Solomon had warned:" Do not go hastily to argue your case before  magistrates, lest you know not what to do in the end when your neighbour humiliates you ."( Proverb 25:8)

Probably, this is why the adage of our elders in Yoruba land has also counselled those who care to listen never to dig the hole of your enemy too deep ,lest you end up being the casualty in the pit, as deep as the well of Democritus. 

Here , let me digress a little to attend some people who appear to have read the first part of this write-up in a hurry, and had been asking what moral lesson was I trying to draw ?

This kind of attitude reminds me of some time in the late 90s when youthful exuberance mixed with impetuousity of a child took better part of me on a divine story which opening chapter God was communicating to me on His Imperial Majesty, Oba Lamidi Adeyemi. 

Ostensibly taking my usually privileged access to the palace of the Alaafin of Oyo,  Iku Baba Yeye at Oyo for granted, and without even confirming or clearing it from Almighty God whether the vision was a sealed one or one that was due for declaration, the next one hour after I had disembarked from the trance found me at the gate of the palace which strangely refused to open to me on the fateful day. 

I had with all religiosity, ( I say this with all modesty ) served God's message to the Alaafin who had always confirmed their potency and fulfillment , but it was the spirituality of the  closed gate of the palace  which taught me a spiritual lesson never again to be hasty or jump the gun on spiritual matters. 

The Lord then told me that He was going to show me a ten chapter book on the Iku Baba Yeye, but that my exuberance had found me hurried away from His presence, tail between my legs , when He had only showed me just its opening chapter. 

What moral lesson  ? 

We would resume our discussion shortly on how God used Ogbeni Rauf Aregbesola for my spiritual upliftment. 


OLALERE FAGBOLA

HOW GOD USED OGBENI RAUF AREGBESOLA FOR MY SPIRITUAL UPLIFTMENT ( PART ONE )


GOD has been the Almightiness behind my repentance from sexual immorality which constituted the greatest affliction from which I  suffered, especially during my childhood days, and which details are contained in this book :" THE EXCELLENCY OF KNOWING HIM. "

He has used Ogbeni Rauf Aregbesola, when  he was the Governor , ( as a vessel of honor in view of the fact that my spiritual contact with him  strengthened my long-drawn resolve to live a life of chastity and obedience to God. 

 I am used to one conviction in my life and it is christened: " Christ,  a-head of my Crises ." This conviction is ever true in my Christian life.  How ? I have discovered that God often , out of mercy , sent  helping hand to me , either to forewarn me( a-head ) of impending danger or provide escape route from any approaching cataclysm .

This is where exactly Ogbeni Rauf Aregbesola has come as a vessel of honor whom God , in 2017 , used for me as  a direct escape route from impending  danger. He came as an answer to my prayer and a helping hand to consolidate my spiritual resolve to lead a life free from sexual encumberance.

Ironically, this was after some years in which  I had opposed him and his government , doing my job as one of his arch critics.

As far back as 2001, I had  withdrawn from all form of sexual immoralities but my meeting Ogbeni Rauf Aregbesola helped me to renew my commitment to the abstinence. 

It all happened  in 2017 when I was appointed by the  Yoruba Students Association In Egypt YOSTANEG as its Media Consultant . The executives of the association had flown into Nigeria from Cairo, wanting to meet Governor Rauf Aregbesola. 

Knowing the general attitude of politicians and civilian Governors to people who are their critics , I was not expecting any good reception from him , especially as I was billed to lead the team to his office.  Characteristic  of my spiritual training to pray before I embark on any professional assignment , I went on my knees to seek the face of the Lord to assist us in this mission. 

I got a pleasant surprise when the Lord brought me to the remembrance of an occasion in which He had  asked my team of prophets to intercede in prayers for Ogbeni Rauf Aregbesola  in 2006 when we had never in life seen him face to face. 

It was during  the period of the hijirah 2017 that we however met one on one  for the first time  , and in appreciating  God Almighty for ensuring  the success of our mission, I was divinely inspired to enter into a vow , which  the Yoruba Bible translation rightly translated  as " Ileri ife" , being  the pledge or the promise of Love " to God Almighty. 

 It was on that day the Lord led me from deep inspiration to enter into a vow of chastity to consolidate my spiritual journey.  It may not have readily meant much to me then , except that I realised that a vow is sacrosanct , but it was thereafter that I sensed that it was a kind of "Christ a-head-of -my -crises " vow, intended by God to save me from impending danger and provide escape route from the usual afflictions that had dogged my steps in life.

No sooner I entered into the vow of renewed chastity in which I had since 2001 promised never to engage in sexual  immoralities than different temptations such that I had never witnessed began to  haunt me left, right and center.  In fact, if it were not for the sacredness of the vow that had bound me , I could have not only returned to my old vomit but could  have continued to wallow in it .

Almost a year after the vow, I came face to face with a book written by Kola Olabisi in which I read that Ogbeni Rauf Aregbesola was never a womanizer and that he is a faithful husband of one wife . It really impressed me that God has chosen the right vessel for His use .


OLALERE FAGBOLA

Sunday, April 16, 2023

NEW DIMENSIONS TO MENTAL HEALTH CARE AND MENTAL HEALTH CARE JOURNALISM



(1) HATH THERE NO CAUSE  ? 

 PREACHERS' SACCHARINE APPROACH TO 

THE SONS AND DAUGHTERS THAT ARE FOR SIGNS AND WONDERS: NIGERIAN CLERICS AND THEIR SACCHARINE GOSPEL OF MOTIVATIONAL SERMONIZATION :

( PASTOR ENOCH ADEBOYE , EVANGELIST FABIYI OBEY AND THEIR RIGHT ATTITUDES TO THIS SPIRITUAL INJUNCTION)

(2)WRITING AND YOUTHS PSYCHOLOGY AND PERSONALITY : 

 (3)LEADERSHIP AND CHARACTER STUDIES : THE PLACE OF 

 COSMOLOGICAL PERSPECTIVE TO LEADERS' DESTINY AND PEOPLES BLESSING OR BURDEN.

(4)WRITING AS A FORM OF THERAPY THAT SERVED MENTAL HEALTH ROBUSTNESS. 

(5) MODERNITY DOES NOT CANCEL SPIRITUALITY :

NEW DIMENSIONS TO MENTAL ILLNESS

(6)NEW DIMENSIONS TO BULLYING: EMMANUEL , AS A CASE STUDY

(7)ECHO OF CONFESSION AND WRITING MYSELF INTO LUNACY

(8)THE CONNECTION BETWEEN NAZIRITE ,DREADLOCKS AND LUNACY

(9) MY ANGER AGAINST OVER TOPICALIZATION , OVERSECULARIZATION AND OVERGENERALIZATION BY WESTERN MEDICINE MENTAL HEALTH CARE GIVERS 

(10) SIGNS OF  OUR TIME

(11)DIARY OF MY AGONIZING EXPERIENCE WITH DADA , THE NAZARITE AND THE HELPLESSNESS OF WESTERN DOCTORS. 

(12)MY RESPONSIBILITY IN HIS TRAUMA

(13) UNMET EXPECTATIONS, ANXIETY AND FEAR OF LIFE AFTER OFFICE AS WELL AS SUCCESSION BIDS ARE EQUIVOCATIONS FROM THE PIT OF  LUNACY ( DIE ) LADY MACBETH  MACBETH, KING SAUL AND KING NEBUDCADNEZZER;AS CASE STUDIES  IN DIRECT INTERPRETATION OF EQUIVOCATION

(14) DEIFYING NAZIRITES :DYNAMIC EQUIVALENT INTERPRETATION AND THE PLACE OF THE HAIR ON YOUR HEAD AS DETERMINANT OF  THE STATE OF YOUR MENTAL HEALTH: YOUR  SANITY OR INSANITY :

(15) EXPOSITIONS ON CHAPTER THREE OF TRAUMA OF THE DREAD-LOCKED: AND THE BEDLAM CALLED NIGERIA .

(16) MOVEMENT AGAINST OUTDATED LEGISLATION AND HOSTILITY AGAINST MENTAL DISABLED NIGERIANS : THE COSMETIC APPROACH TO REHABILITATION OF MENTALLY DISABLED PEOPLE 

(17) STOPPING GOVERNMENT'S  CROCODILE TEARS FOR MENTALLY DISABLED PEOPLE IN NIGERIA 

 (18)INTERDISCIPLINARY STUDIES AND THE HYPOCRISY OF WESTERN PARADIGM APPROACH TO MENTAL HEALTH CARE

(19) MENTAL HEALTH CARE JOURNALISM: THE PLACE OF UNWRITTEN HAZARDS OF JOURNALISM PRACTICE IN NIGERIA 

(20) WHEN SCHOLARS AND JOURNALISTS FAILED TO PUT PEN TO PAPERS. 


OLALERE FAGBOLA REPORTING FOR worduniversity.online

TAKING RESPONSIBILITY OVER : TRAUMA OF THE DREAD-LOCKED

 


 Kindly allow me to seize this opportunity to inform you of my intention to bring to public view , my new book christened:"TRAUMA OF THE DREAD-LOCKED " in which I have unzipped my mind concerning my three years of agonizing experience where-in I shuttled through five different hospitals seeking mental health care for my son, Dada , who had put up with mental illness since 2019.

 73 years old designer of the World Trade Center, Robertson Leslie, had during his lecture  on Post-September 11- attack , been asked by one of the engineers :

"what could you have done differently in the design and construction of the international edifice ?"

" I wish I had made the pillars to stand up a little longer, " He answered in an emotion-laden voice.

 " I mean every person was important, everyone deserved a chance to get out ." He added, still trying  to fight back tears.

Just as the whole world had indicted terrorists who carried the dastardly act in which America's single largest loss of life was recorded , Robert Leslie also had all the reasons to pass the buck and blame it all on the terrorists , but he was no man to do so.

 By that singular and uncommon act he gave a new definition to personal responsibility. 

It is along this frame of 

 Robertson Leslie's school of thought that I have also contemplated what my answer would be , should my son and future generation turn around to ask why I have decided to bring issue of mental illness (which they consider as private matter) to public forum , even as a topic for a book  ?

There is no doubt that in the past three years in which we have been putting up with untold agony of shuttling through five different hospitals for the treatment of my son, the question that had seriously nagged my mind and constituted a weight on my conscience is this :

" Are you not one of the architects of this mental illness  ?

Knowing what the spiritual connection between the two words ; "Trauma "and "Dread-locked " portends for insanity, I have  been wondering if this lunacy of a thing would have  become the portion which my son ought to have nursed for so long if I had functioned FULLY in the three areas of spiritual office and gifts which God endowed me  ?

First , I am a writing Prophetologist, gifted in prophetic utterances; second , I am a Psalmist endowed richly with composing and singing songs of praise and thirdly , I am naturally  empowered as a youth mobilizer, having been involved in youth leadership in the past fifty years .

Regrettably however, I have in all of these three fronts behaved like the Biblical recalcitrant Prophet Jonah , who in shirking responsibility, is used to delegating others  to carry out messages which God had directly asked him to deliver to the world.

 One of the ways which  therefore opens up to me towards fulfilling personal responsibility lies in writing this book , being an echo of confession and repentance while allowing it to co-exist with the second book, ( THE EXCELLENCY OF KNOWING HIM) itself being a confession of testimony and path to living a life of chastity .

I intend, soonest , to launch the two new books to raise an endowment in my concerted effort to assign value to my collective experience on this matter and I am hopeful that, given your good disposition to helping humanity , you would not hesitate to assist me in ensuring the attainment of my lofty goals for the mentally disabled people and right orientation for our youths. 


OLALERE FAGBOLA


WHY RAISING AN ENDOWMENT FUND FROM THE TWO BOOK PROJECTS  ? 


(a) Part of the proceeds realisable and realized at the launching  would be committed to mass production of the two books in three major languages other than English language towards full sensitisation of the public .

(b ) Register a non governmental organisations with interfaith disposition to champion the following aims and objectives. 


( MAIN OBJECTIVES)


(1)To give  rehabilitation to selected mentally disabled patients who have successfully undergone medical treatment .

(2) Conduct sensitisation campaign in pursuit of an understanding of the problems associated with the mentally ill. 

(3) Helping the family of the mentally disabled patient to cope in pursuit of the welfare of their relatives. 

(4)Conduct and support research that promotes mental health. 

(5) Encourage  holistic attitude  to mental health care in order to embrace interdisciplinariness. 

(6 ) Encourage movement that would lead to the reviewing of our obsolete legislation and change of hostile attitudes of society against the mentally disabled people.


 ( OTHER OBJECTIVES)


(7)Liberating the Church ( African Instituted churches) from mental and spiritual laxity and laziness especially on their ill-informed perception of Dadas or Nazirites who are often  bamboozled into wearing dreadlocks as a result of religious doctrine. 

(8) Freeing innocent children from spiritual and societal bullying through re-defining bullying and parental/social responsibilities. 

(9 ) Liberating mental health care givers from parochialism and western-oriented paradigm. Reorientating them on sound mental health care /ethical values.

(10) Liberating  the perception of society on mental illness and legislation on mentally disabled patients from mental cruelty. 

(11)Liberating the Nigerian youths from being victims of unmet expectations which often lead to needless depression through over reliance on DIRECT INTERPRETATION OF EQUIVOCATION ( DIE) which is  the style peculiar  to motivational speakers. 

(12) Liberating mentally disabled patients from stereotype rehabilitation in which they are prematurely discharged from hospitals only to face stigmatisation and hostility from the society. 

(13) Liberating Nigeria's educational system and institutions ( especially tertiary education) from unintended evil consequences of industrial action/ strikes .

Investigations which I have conducted revealed that ASUU prolonged strike has tolled negatively on the mental attitudes of undergraduates in the South western part of Nigeria, judging by the number of mentally disabled students admitted at hospitals during this period. 

* Comparative data analysis is being processed to confirm this.


OLALERE FAGBOLA

MISSION STATEMENT



There have, in recent times, been upsurge in youth delinquency and suicide rate which I suspect is not unconnected with unmet expectations of youths who are the immediate casualties.

My findings reveal that this sad development might be traced to the influence which motivational speakers wield irrevocably on the media generation through their Direct Interpretation of Equivocation ( DIE)system  in reaching  out to the youths whose desires  are often fired up but are themselves robbed of the strength of actualisation.

Another crisis on hand in our society is the gale of hate literature ( in circulation) as occasioned by irresponsible media reporting ,even as our media generation is being befuddled by mental laziness as a result of their delusion that technology is there to think for them. 

As if this is not enough, the society is retrogressively witnessing the underdevelopment of reading culture through the abuse of and unguided public launching of intellectual material ( books) while losing moral compass from saccharine gospel of instant prosperity in religious houses.

 (2)POSITION AND CURRENT SITUATION. 

There are weak  attempts by educational institutions to design and implement dynamic curriculum to deal with emerging challenges, even as both governments and the media have been found to engage in over- topicalisation and over-secularisation of issues of high public concern. 

In the Management of conflicts, the country is awash with selective activists and Democrats of convenience. 

Most unfortunate is the fact that statesmanship within our university system is not boldly thinking out of the box towards having co-responsive interaction with statesmanship outside the university walls for the much - needed breakthroughs.


 (3)PROPOSAL THEREFORE 


If Effective presentation of public speaking is ten percent external and ninety percent internal and psychological, we are then missing the entire point to effectiveness in speaking, if we miss out Psycho-linguistic and memory concentration studies in the scheme of training on the Art of speaking well. 

This is exactly where-in, psycho linguistic comes as my area of competence and training option in motivating motivational speakers.

Rather than the permutation option to persuasion ,"Reputation" management to effective leadership and Direct Interpretation of Equivocation ( DIE) to motivational speaking, I have successfully explored Dynamic Equivalent interpretation (DEI).

Such is still the ongoing fruitless case when school curriculum,towards rescuing the media generation from the media bathroom in which they are drowned, attempts to groom them using moral instruction and biographies which thrust are built on mere stereotypes .

Thinking outside of this box,I have successfully initiated the teaching  of media studies  and cosmological perspective to writing biography, as this is the ideal way to character-study, noting that  leader's destiny is tantamount to nation's blessing or nation's burden.

When governments,as crisis managers ,fail in their conflict Management strategy to give pride of place to value-reorientation for the  media ( as professionals who manage themselves through crisis)I pioneered the teaching of media studies as effective replacement of moral instruction in schools of science in Oyo and Osun states.

Equally, I organised the first inter-faith ( value-orientation )seminar for working journalists in Oyo state on the platform of an ngo,Movement of Non-Violence in Africa MENVIA ,founded from the proceeds of the launching of former Governor Lam Adesina's biography of my authorship in 2000.


A CALL TO DUTY .


" A true man does not seek the path where advantage lies only but rather, the path where duty lies.The only practical man is he whose dream of today will be the law of tomorrow. He who looks back on the upheavals of history and has seen civilisation going up in flames, crying out in bloody struggle throughout the centuries, knows that the future well- being of man without exception lies on the side of duty."


AREAS OF IMMEDIATE ATTENTION. 

(1)  There is a need to organize Psycholinguistic workshops for Motivational speakers,  public office holders, Executive officers and other professionals on Effective presentation skills. 

We would be replacing the current Direct Interpretation of Equivocation ( DIE) with Dynamic Equivalent Interpretation ( DEI) as the ideal and dynamic system of communication. 

(2)  Introduction of Media Studies in place of half-hearted teaching of moral instruction in schools . This would necessitate organising seminars for teachers and students on Rhetoric and the Art of speaking well while encouraging debates among schools and encouraging reading culture through distribution of books and organizing book lectures in schools. 


(3)INTERFAITH DIALOGUE FOR THE MEDIA.

In view of the recurring situation in the country, where-in some unpatriotic people often whip up religious tension whenever general election is approaching,it would be strategic to organize interfaith seminar for working journalists and other social media activists.


MAKING A CASE FOR INTERFAITH WORKSHOP FOR THE MEDIA , CLERICS AND OTHER STAKEHOLDERS IN CONFLICT MANAGEMENT. 



(1)

 CONFLICTS ,RELIGION AND THE MEDIA.


Holy wars between Christians and Muslims were fought in the midd le ages while religion is oftentimes, the cause of devastating conflicts in Africa, even as evident in recent facts released by the U.S. Commission on International Religious Freedom, issued on religious persecution world wide. It featured Nigeria, Iran,Sudan, Vietnam, North Korea and China as the nations where religious conflict is rampant.  

Nigeria is said to have a configuration in which both Christians and Muslims each have no fewer than sixty million population. 

" In Nigeria, they are two equal majorities starting each other in the face .That makes the country, more so than any other Arab or other Asian country, the most strategic laboratory or test case of how these two different peoples can live in harmony. "


(2)

CURRENT 

POSITION 


OVERTOPICALISATION 


Two ailments plaguing religionists and journalists of our time are lack of vision to recognise the danger of overtopicalisation and the courage to oppose it.

Rather than viewing every topic in our religious tenets parochially as if it were intended to serve only our sect and selfish interest, it is high time we began to debrief ourselves of this bigotry while deducing principles there-from for universal application. After all, the basic fundamentals of every religion worth its salt is based on " doing unto others as one would be done by ."

It is strange that too many religious bigots have found it inconceivable to appreciate  the fact that  the underlying principle behind the world shrinking into a wall less society ( in which events in one ripples effects into another) is the challenge that we are our own brother's keepers. 


(3)

CURRENT 

PROPOSITION 



EFFECTIVE MOBILIZATION.

If our political dispensation is today failing in view of lack of commitment to governance by politicians  and the lack of understanding by the electorate of the sacredness of  vote ,it is because the media and religious houses as well as non governmental organisations,including  governments, are grossly failing in their duties of giving proper orientation on the sacredness of vow and vote.

One cannot afford NOT to be fanatical on matters such as one touching Vow and Vote;(the two being temple matters ) for it is in the inner satisfaction derivable in one being allowed to exercise one's right to cast vote ,even from one's own decision, based on conviction and on ideology, that matters ,rather than on pandering to the winning side through carpet-crossing master minded by coveteousness.

 Not many people appear to understand that the  huge role which MAMSER ( during President Ibrahim Babangida's era ) played in the social Mobilization of the electorate for the 1993 Presidential election, considered as the freest ever , accounted for the way Nigerians participated actively in the election which was won by Bashorun MKO Abiola.

 In view of the fact that true development of the people is the development of their minds, MAMSER believed that a politically conscious,effectively mobilized and properly motivated population is the greatest deterrent to bad government, it raised the political maturity and consciousness of the masses while reorientating interreligious dialogues among religious leaders in the country .

Among the objectives which the directorate of social Mobilization executed were three key programmes namely, Mass education, political education and Mass mobilization for self reliance, social justice and economic recovery.  

" When  a Muslim, MKO Abiola ,being the Vice President of the Nigerian Supreme Council for Islamic Affairs became a presidential candidate for the Social Democratic party in 1993,Christians  warned that he should be careful not to present a religiously one-sided team by selecting a muslim to be his running mate.

The president of the Christian Association of Nigeria  the Most Reverend Anthony Okogie intervened with his statement that it did not matter whether the candidates  were Muslims or  Christians: what mattered  ,he said was whether the candidates were God-, fearing .

Abiola went a-head and announced a Muslim  running mate and the team became a winner North,East,and West .


 NOT JUST THE  TIMELINESS BUT THE APPROPRIATENESS; NOT JUST THE FAITH BUT THE VIRTUE; NOT JUST A DIALOGUE BUT THE DIALOGUE.


In the media,the race to keep deadline is usually a heavy race . According to Larry Arhaga, "It is a moment for the Editor in  a newspaper to forget all side attractions, including his wife, his children...Those who work to meet deadlines are his friends; others who do not are instant foes ." 

In view of the fact that the tasks of gathering, processing and disseminating information must be done within very limited time,even when the news is still news, this deadline in the media world could be a death line if not tampered with Appropriateness. 

In emergency period or when faced with very sensitive issues such as matters having to do with religious values, care must be taken not to allow the quest to beat deadline result in deathend for the society. 

Just as integrity is not enough until it coexists with knowledge,  faith is not also enough if it doesn't work along with virtue.

This principles are operating both in the media as well as in Religion , as both belong to the consciousness industry.   

Virtue is transparency solidified ; one must not only be seen as one exactly is,  but one must be seen correctly in the light of what  one is claiming to be. 

It must go beyond all reasonable doubts while one must allow one's light to so shine before the world that people would have no option than to glorify God.  

Any intention, one holds,no matter how laudable , it is still subject to suspicion in public domain and which is why every move having to do with religious values is better handled with all the care necessary to ensure that it doesn't become a death end.


CRITICISMS 


Different criticisms have continued to hit the Nigerian governments over their sponsorship of pilgrimage  to Mecca and Jerusalem, with many critics describing it as wasteful,unconstitutional and intended to compensate government's cronies. 

"Some critics who took historical surveys on past and present governments since the period of the old Western government of Chief Obafemi Awolowo, being the administration that first began the hajj project for muslims ,have concluded that government's motives in sponsoring pilgrimages are self-serving as they are :" mid-term populist tactics to seek re- election for a second term ticket, retain power and maintain the status quo."


DIALOGUE OF THE DEAF

 With the argument  by some Northern state governments that they were expanding the scope of shariya in their own states in line with the constitution, those who opposed them ,mainly Christians and Christian organisations disagreed with their stand amid tough tactics by those who kicked against it and saw it as an agenda to islamize Nigeria.  

Although the shariya controversy was older than  the administration of Chief Olusegun Obasanjo, the debate on shariya having reared its head in 1992 and suspended at the constituent Assembly in 1992, the President still claimed that shariya was instituted in 1999 to truncate the fledgling democracy with his Information Minister, Professor Jerry Gana also stating that the adoption of shariya was a ploy to destabilize the government of the day.


No doubt, matters of religion often excited passion and animosities in believers, the ideal thing has always been to engage groups and stakeholders in civilised and frank discussions and eschew the dialogue of the deaf.  


(4)

MY 

PROPOSAL 

BEING THE

WAY FORWARD


MAKING A CASE FOR 

INTERFAITH SEMINAR FOR  THE MEDIA ( Journalists, Bloggers, Clerics and other stakeholders including public office holders. )


Just the same way interdisciplinary studies through the link between Medicine and Literature have humanized medical practice and its practitioners, it is high time we also explored interfaith dialogue through the genetic link between religion and media to bring about sanity in the relationship between Christians and Muslims in the country. 

Without doubt ,a profession is as strong as its spiritual and intellectual foundations and if the Media should be assigning positive value to its collective experience and responsibility along this line,there is no better time than now to tap the inner resources available to the media in fostering peace in the country through interfaith dialogue. 

 Either in America or in Nigeria,  the media were the first intellectuals in the society, as journalism precursors were printers which pioneered intellectualism in the real sense. 

Looking at the origin of Journalism education in America, it is said that it originated from a rich intellectual tradition, with printers as the forebears of today's editors,publishers and broadcasters, renowned as well-read leaders of public opinions. They reshaped the minds of their different societies. 

In his book :"Reshaping The Media", Everette E. Dennis wrote :" The character one encounters in Isaiah Thomas's history of printing in America or the autobiography of Jamin Franklin were often culturally and intellectually well a-head of the lawyers and doctors of their time. Journalism has always been more than pure craft .It was often a point of entry to the literary life .

It is the same thing in Nigeria where most of the Nationalists who fought for the independence of Nigeria, even without firing a single bullet were journalists.  

Even though every Nigerian is a potential agent of religious conflict, the press and now ,the social media, have become the platform for spewing ethnic  and religious tensions of greatest proportions. 

There is no doubt that crisis has become the structural feature of modern society ,with the media as the agent of social communication through which crisis is made PUBLIC.

It is however regrettable that the media have not been sufficiently involved in making peace PUBLIC. 

There is no peace or conflict resolution initiative made in the country by government or private organisations without the media being asked to providing " paper " coverage to such programme but ironically, the case is like the proverbial "Water,Water Every where ,but not a drop is available  to drink. Converesly , the media 

 have not been given value reorientation in order for them to domesticated and internalise the virtues therefrom, being the educator and guardian of public morality. 


WAY FORWARD 


In the Declaration on the relations of the church to non-Christians,  Nostra Aetare promulgated by the Vatican Council in 1965,  pleaded with Christians to forget the past centuries of quarrels  between them and the Muslims and urged that a sincere effort be made to achieve mutual understanding, even for the promotion of peace, liberty, social justice and moral values.

Also quoting the Islamic concept of criminal justice,  Ibrahim M. Zikirullahi stated that no Christian should be compelled to forsake his religion, arguing that the action of those who introduced sharia was contrary to the injunctions of the Holy Qur'an. 

" Prophet Mohammed further advised that even in time of war ,moslems should not harbour feelings of hatred and enmity against the Christians.


 In view of the fact that the promotion of religion and mutual understanding is not exclusively the domain of religious leaders, non governmental organisations and individuals have taken it upon themselves to initiate inter religious discourse and dialogues ,hence the initiative by Movement of non violence In Africa MENVIA ( an ngo co-founded by Alhaji Lam Adesina and I) towards encouraging interreligious understanding and peace in the country.


A prerequisite in any constructive dialogue is that both communities should not learn about each other through sources that are unsympathetic, critical or even hostile... a meaningful Muslim-Christian dialogue must take place on the basis of our respective scriptures and our understanding and experience of them. ( Al-Hajj UNS, Jah.

This could begin through an interfaith seminar .


  


PROVIDING LIVING EVIDENCE THAT INTERFAITH CULTURE IS A MARK OF DISTINCTION. 

 (7) As the initiator of the project which the former Governor ( of blessed memory) actively supported before the PDP-led administration that succeeded him chased us out of our secretariat and killed the dream physically ( but not spiritually) it has been gratifying to note that it had been in the settled habit of my interfaith antecedents that my interfaith body language is committed. 

This has been a culture I grew up with from my mother's ( Oba Toyese Laoye's )royal family in Ede and advanced in most of my writings and biographies. 

For instance, my first Journalism textbook:" JOURNALISTS AND THE HANDS OF GOD " being a bestseller book in use across departments of Mass Communication in Nigeria and in some West African countries, fulcrums on the principles of interfaith. 

Other biographies of my authorship, notably, :"A SWORN ENEMY OF CONVENTION " being Ogbeni Rauf Aregbesola's biography of my authorship is a deep reflection of my interfaith disposition. 

Uniquely resourceful on interfaith matter is my new book :"THE EXCELLENCY OF KNOWING HIM " being an  intelligent and divinely guided follow-up work on the biography .

( Available with me is a catalogue of testificatory remarks of working journalists: participants in MENVIA Interfaith workshop which commend the interfaith project as a unique weapon in entrenching peace and harmony in inter-religious relationships and in educating media in promoting in the country. 

RADICAL APPROACH TO THE BLIND SPOT ON BULLYING

Much have been written on bullying and its criminal effects on society in general, but without any appreciable and constructive understanding of many areas of loopholes which  (in our quest for solutions)  have been left uncovered, leaving the larger society , particularly youth worse for it .

This wide gap is what my stay at Imodoye Residency Enclave , Ilorin has in recent times  been addressing .

Based on the proposal I submitted concerning my plan to unravel this short sightedness, I was selected as a Writer-In-Residence , having submitted a new book work plan in which I am evidently assigning value to my collective experience on the mental illness of my son, Emmanuel , who has  gone through five different hospitals for treatment in the past three years ( 2019-2022 )

 As a veteran journalist and author , coupled with my brief stint at Ahmadu Bello University Teaching hospital, Zaria, where I worked as media consultant/ Editorial to its bi-annual magazine publications, it occurs to me , by credible insight 

  that, I  may be fooling myself ( and ofcourse injuring my boy further) if I fail to come out openly on my discoveries ( either in fiction or non fiction genres) on what I perceive as the blind spot  which bullying as an

" unintentional " hurting, has caused Emmanuel right from his childhood. 

Though unintended, the (sacrilegious ) evil consequences of Emmanuel passing through certain religious bigotry , which amount to bullying,  have affected his mentality and those of  other innocent children while this sad development deserve to be studied with  the likelihood of bringing  a positively social and religious change .

This becomes even more pertinent and vital in a society like Nigeria where

an average of 50 million people suffer from mental illness ( with one out of four Nigerians accounting  statistically  as insane) even in a country in which less than ten percent of its population is having access to professional ( mental) assistance while government's annual budget devoted less than three percent to mental health.

In fact, hell could not have found a nearer haven of a bedlam than Nigeria where this has persisted for too long .

And does it not by itself amount to delusion of lunacy on our part as Nigerians generally, amid the usual daily headline news reporting cases of  top public office holders , ( allegedly for fear of life after office ) looting public treasury as they cart away billions of Naira where staggering poverty is nakedly staring majority of Nigerians in the face ?

Little wonder why the former Secretary General of World Health Organisation W.H.O. Professor Adeoye Lambo did recommend sometimes that politicians aspiring to contest either as a Governor or a President of Nigeria should first of all be subjected to mental test towards determining his state of health for obvious reason. 

EMMANUEL AS A CASE STUDY .

During a psycho therapy  session which Dr. Ajayi of Osogbo Central hospital Osogbo had with Emmanuel, I learned to my rude shock that  my son began smoking Indian hemp as a secondary school student, having been recruited as a choreographer by someone whom he referred to as " leader ". He was used to  leading him along with other teenagers to churches to entertain their congregations with dancing acrobatics.

This is nothing but bullying in which innocent creatures are psychologically subjected to repetitive and hurtful acts by a superior power .

The view of Dr. Oyewole of Balm of Gilead Specialist hospital, Osogbo in 2019 that Emmanuel is a victim of parental pampering ( among others) has also not ceased to echo both in my consciousness and in my conscience where it reverberates consistently. 

I suspect that we may have gone wrong where we, as his parents  and members of Aladura church addressed him as Dada, the Nazirite whose heavy dreadlocks at birth , almost placed him on an oracular platform in which we ( like other parents of Dadas ) exhibited zeal without knowledge as we didn't march the moral and spiritual discipline that ought  to go rigidly along with the training of children whom the bible referred to as Nazirites.

This is nothing but bullying even though it was not intended.

 It was owing to his reckless passion for choreography  that made him abscond from home for three years , and when at last he surfaced, he had ended up becoming a victim of another brand of bullying from those with whom he worked as stylists, even as his immediate boss allegedly abused him sexually. 

His trouble took another dimension when upon mentioning this heinous activities to police  during an unrelated case brought against his master , hell was let loose as he was harassed  and brutalised  by those who were recruited by his master to bullying him to a standstill.

Just few years ago, he revealed this story to me following my persistent enquiries on why he was increasingly shuttling from one salon to another, while he came  up with the excuse that some boys with whom he had rough deals at Ibadan were already at Osogbo, monitoring  him and that he wanted to avoid them.

I became more worried when he told me that he had already on his own volition,narrated his ordeal in a confession statement to a charismatic church in Osogbo some years back. 

I became more worried for the fact that the church authorities could not , as and when he made the confession, take we his parents into confidence over how both of us could jointly manage him spiritually and mentally .

There is no doubt that all of these factors may have culminated in his further embrace of  Indian hemp smoking to either cover his tracks psychologically or as a way of regaining lost confidence while ending up with mental illness.

The worst effect which his problem is causing me is that the intermittent relapses of his mental illness have been robbing me of peace of mind vital to authorship while the attendant interruptions on my studies have stalled three biography projects which I was commissioned to write .

 His insistence that he is not at all sick and that he would not take his drugs if discharged from hospital have not helped matters as this stance has been the source of the relapsement of his illness.

The sole objective of my new book on bullying is  primarily to raise an endowment through the launching and sales of the both online and offline.

 it is my intention to use the proceeds raised there-from  to register a faith-based governmental organisation which would  crusade against drug abuse ,sensitize religious leaders on the danger of the new form of bullying while empowering them with the right knowledge .

The writer-friendly and enabling environment which Imodoye Residency Enclave programme has afforded me in the past one month has no doubt provided me great opportunity to prepare my manuscript .

The other production processes which include type setting, designing and publishing as well as corresponding to prospective launchers towards planning programmes for the launching would entail operating undisturbed under a conducive environment while accessing financial grants to accomplish the task .

The  tragedies which his mental distress has caused us, his parents and family members have come to us in manifold dimensions.

* We have been the direct victims of his verbal and physical assaults and the trauma that go by this is better imagined than experienced. 

*  Needless to say here that the huge financial burdens ( about two million naira)which his medical treatment has caused us in the past three years have led us, his parents to seek financial assistance from friends and other well-wishers while we are on the verge of selling our properties to meet up  with bills accruing from his treatment, welfare and travels ( often accompanied by police escorts) from one hospital to another.

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